where are you? --------> where do you want to go? ----->
WHY
money break through. spa . fully present financial freedom. proud.
when we have that desitaiton we now what we're driving to. not driving backroads without gps.
have to add an emotion. have to add your heard.
you need a why - you'll crawl across broken glass. you'll chew throough a wall.
why - I wanted my kids to have choices because if felt like I didn't I wanted to be in control my my decisions and my time. the deepest why is making breakfast for my kids every morning taking them to school and dance recitals. why. why. why . why.
when your heart beats fast and tears swell thats when you found it. who can help you close the gap
just not know is what drove me. whats real love. whats it like to be in afraid. not knowing was enough to drive him crazy . so he must. why why why.
every time resistance trys to stop you
I want to be loved. I want to show god is real. to inspire those who are broken . why why why why
attach the emotion.
how
how are you going to close the gap. how are you going to go from here to her.
mindset tools skills capabilities. that what closes the gap.
where are you --> who will help you close the gap
see whats possible when you gain skills and possibilities when there's a team besides you. when you feel the then you want to share with everyone. if it sounds like I'm trying to get you to enroll, I am , because I want you to be a part of it. a complete package to redesign 2026 to make it the best year of your life.
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summary title apply "the better reaction you have. And again, I was saying earlier, if you got to go to the dark side of like, what would it feel like if you left it here? Right? Sometimes we need that extra burst, like Tony says, I said earlier, the rocket getting off the ground, that's when most of the energy is needed. So if you got to get a little disturbed, that's okay. Great. I love, I love you guys are playing full out. I love being with the Tony audience. Okay, where are you? The next part, if you know where you are, your GPS, your starting point, what's your destination? And that's, where do you wanna go? You know, sometimes with a phone and life and goals and family and juggle, looking at your goals can be a little cloudy. There's so much going on. So I wanna challenge you to do something else. Instead of looking forward, what the next year is gonna be like, let's pretend it's a year from now. We're back here celebrating, and it was the best year of your life. What had to happen for that to be true? That's your compelling future. I heard somebody say once, fuzzy targets don't get hit. It's like, I can't see too good without my glasses. I couldn't hit anything without a mon. But when I have mon, I could see the target. And that's the same with identifying where it is that you want to go. And also, it's crazy, but our brain also can bring us to what we don't want. We don't realize it. Somebody said, you ask 10 people you know what they want out of life, they'll tell you what they don't want. I watched Tony probably a decade ago bring a guy on stage, a gentleman on stage. He sat him in a chair with a whiteboard alongside him. He said, tell me all the things you don't want out of life. Tony could not write fast enough and his sloppy writing was writing, writing, writing, wrote up the side, right up the side. He took him out of the chair. He walked him over to another chair with a clean whiteboard and he said, okay, now tell me what you want out of life. Where do you want to go? And the guy was like, um, hmm, good question. Let me think. So if you think about it in life, so many times we're focusing on what we don't want and we just get more of it. Tony tells incredible stories of that, right? He talks, I don't know if you ever heard the NASCAR when he was learning how to drive a race car. He had to focus on the clearing, not the wall. So many times in life, we're focusing on the wall. We're going fast. I don't want to hit it. You run into it when we got to force ourselves to say, this is my compelling future. This is what I want. This is clear to me. And you got to make sure you're not just focusing on what you don't want or you'll keep running into it. So we have to create a compelling future. So in the chat, if it was a year from now and it was the greatest year of your life, you stayed connected, you stayed plugged in, you didn't play small. You found that courage. You busted through imposter syndrome or fear, regret, guilt. What would the best year of your life look like? Maybe with your relationships or your income or your career or the business you launched or just finding yourself again. This is so beautiful. Freedom, peace, freedom and peace of mind. Publish a novel. Travel the world. Passionate relationship and daily joy. This is so beautiful. Proud. Content, at peace. Money breakthrough. Spa owner. Two managers. 10 therapists. Carrie. Amazing. That's an exact target. An exact... Compelling future, proud, fully present, financial freedom. See, when we have that destination, then we know where we're driving to. We're not just going fast down the back roads with no GPS on, right? So if you know where you are and you know where you wanna go, and I know I'm going quick, but I really want this to hit home. This is the part next that changed everything for me. And I always draw a little heart. If anybody we've met before, you know I do this every month of my life. This has been the biggest game changer ever because this always changes where you are and where you wanna go changes. But the part you have to add, and Tony taught me this almost 30 years ago, you have to add an emotion. You have to add your heart because just New Year's resolutions, they're dead by January 18th, by the way. That's the average. Vision boards, they're beautiful and people have them, but if there's no heart attached, then the first time there's resistance, as Tony talked about earlier, the first time there's a dragon that tells you you're not enough, you're too old, you're too young, this isn't for you, technology doesn't work, love isn't good, men are bad, women won't work. Like as soon as that comes up, you go, well, maybe life is good enough. No, you need a why. You need your heart so attached to this that nothing will stop you. You'll chew through a brick wall. You'll climb over anything. You'll crawl across broken glass. You know, I don't wanna make this about me. This is about you, but in my life, my parents were married nine times when I was a kid. I moved 20 times by the time I was 19. It's probably how Tony and I started our first day off. We talked about our childhood and we laughed and said how grateful we were for it. But here's what I know. My why, why I drive so hard is because I wanted my kids to have choices because I felt like I didn't. And I wanted to be in control of my time and my calendar and my decisions. You know what's important to me at this day? I love being partners with Tony, the impact we get to make, the so many cool things we do, but you know the deepest why I have? It's making breakfast for my four kids every morning, taking them to school, making dance recitals. I would hate if someone said, hey, you can't make the dance recital today. You know, we got that project, you can't go. I'd probably rather die than let somebody tell me when, where and how. Now that's just me, but what is yours? And usually you find this next level heart when you ask why a few more times. I wanna make more money. Why? I want more freedom. Why? Because I wanna be with my children. Why? Because my parents weren't with me. And all of a sudden you find this moment when the hair stands up in your arms and your heart beats a little bit faster or tears fill up in the corner. That's when you found it. And this is the driving force. It's great to know where you are and where you wanna go, but the driving force is the heart. It's the emotion. Even the emotion of leaving it the way it is and never in experiencing it. Tony and I were blessed to become friends and partner with Matthew McConaughey in a few things. And you know what he said? He said his driver when him and I talked about this, he said, just not knowing is what drove him. He said, I couldn't get to my end of my life and not know what it's like to have real love, not know what it's like to do crazy stuff when he was in Africa and fight somebody in a foreign village. He said that not knowing was enough to drive him crazy, so he must. So I know you're writing these great things, but why? Why do you wanna go from here to here? Attach that emotion, and every time resistance tries to stop you, remember it's the heart that'll drive you through. It'll be the brain to try to talk you out of what's logical, and the heart will drive you through. Cool, you guys getting that? Look at all these beautiful comments. Put in the chat why. I want to be loved, right? I want to show God is real, to inspire those that are broken. Beautiful messages, guys. Beautiful messages. All right, so if you know where you are and you know where you wanna go, and you attach an emotion, then the last thing left is how? How are you gonna go from here to here? As Tony calls it, how are you gonna close the gap? What capabilities do you need? What knowledge do you need? What accountability do you need? What mindset shifts do you need? What tools do you need? That's what closes the gap. That's why you're here. That's why so many of you must, and you're moving on to unleash the power within, to gain these skills, gain these capabilities. I know. I wouldn't be the man I am today without him. And one little secret is sometimes how can be a little confusing. How can be a little overwhelming. So, replace how with who. Who has the skills to help you close this gap? Who has the skills that can help you go faster to reach your goals? In my life, that who, as I shared, has been Tony Robbins. Again, I look back. If I was left alone with my old patterns, my old beliefs, even though I was a hustler and a hard worker before I got enrolled, before I got personal power, before I went to UPW, before I went to Date with Destiny and all the rest, I was a hard worker. I had all the dreams and I had momentum, but Tony showed me a path that shifted everything. That's why I'm here today. That's why if you could feel my passion, my passion to nudge you forward, because I don't want this to be the end of three days for you. I want you to see what's possible when you gain skills and capability and have the right team beside you, because this is the start of the new you or the start of you being inspired and going, oh, that was fun. You know, people ask me, why are you still so passionate about what you do? You could retire. You could go live on an island. You know why? Because I know what it's like to be on the side of just wanting more, dreaming about it, knowing I had more to give the world. And I also know the other side of achieving more than I ever imagined. When you feel that, you want to share it with everybody. And if it sounds like I'm trying to push you or enroll you, I am. I'm completely honest with that, because I want you to experience the other side.
“Compelling Future: Heart-Driven Goals and Closing the Gap”
Summary:
The speaker emphasizes the importance of creating a compelling, heart-driven vision for your life rather than just avoiding what you don’t want. Using vivid examples—from Tony Robbins’ coaching, racing metaphors, and personal stories—they illustrate that:
Clarity matters: Know your starting point and your destination. Fuzzy goals lead to vague results.
Focus on what you want: Concentrating on what you don’t want leads to repeating the same patterns.
Attach emotion to your goals: Heart and emotion create unstoppable drive; logic alone is insufficient.
Discover your “why”: Dig deep past surface desires to uncover emotional drivers—freedom, love, impact, legacy.
Close the gap: Define not just what you want, but how to get there—identify the skills, knowledge, accountability, tools, and people who can help you accelerate.
Leverage mentors and support: The right guidance (like Tony Robbins for the speaker) can transform momentum into sustained results.
The overall message: success is a combination of clarity, emotion, strategy, and support. Knowing your compelling future, connecting to your heart, and seeking the right help allows you to overcome resistance, fear, and self-doubt to create extraordinary results.
Application / Takeaway:
Create a compelling future vision: Write down what a perfect year from now looks like, across all areas of life—relationships, career, finances, personal growth.
Attach heart to your goals: Identify the emotional reasons driving you, not just logical ones. This becomes your fuel when obstacles appear.
Be specific about the “how”: Map out what skills, resources, or mentors you need to get there. Replace overwhelm with actionable steps.
Avoid focusing on what you don’t want: Shift energy to positive targets; clarity attracts results.
Leverage support systems: Identify people, mentors, or programs that accelerate your growth.
In short: see it clearly, feel it deeply, plan it wisely, and surround yourself with the right support.
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